Each day i keep analised it - what did i do wrong. How to be close to perfect mum? Saying, Reading, Google it and test it all done. Seem it's not as simple as that. Being Notice 2 element are required to do that which is MONEY and TIME. Which want we want to use it?
My experience with 5 kids make me to try all the element. I start with Money. - as parent we work hard to bring home lot of Money.
People say with money u will do many thing. I did use that method, work morning till night to get money. I let my kids have what they want - they don't even close to be the person that they proud to be.
Then I change to spend lot of time with them. At 1st it seem to be perfect but after sometime it seem not perfect. They want more then that. They start complaining due to money can't be spend as usual. So time only not enough to raise kids now this.
Finally i choose money n time. I thinks as mum i need to sacrified and plan ahead all my activities. 'Balance lifestyle'.
Another word i like is once mum emotional intelligent is stable they can do wonders. Manageable demand from work, family and society make less stress for her. Then she can perform lot of successful storey with her kids. I'm trying this now perhaps i also can create successful storey bout my kids. - amin
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