Always Smile

Melalui fakta yang dikumpulkan oleh Psikatrik dan badan2 tertentu dlm mengkaji statistik masalah sosial dan kadar penceraian di malaysia, pada saya menjurus kepada pengurusan emosi dan 'expectation in healthy relationship'. Dari kecil hinggalah ke veteran setiap hari kita menyatakan kasih sayang, cinta, benci dan suka...disamping mempunyai seseorg yang dipanggil  Kekasih, balak, awek, cewek, girlfriend, boyfriend, life partner, spouse, tunangan, isteri, suami dan sebagainya. Dan relationship ini bukan sekadar sex dan kesetiaan.

Saya menyatakan ini selepas my tea tarik outing with group of veteran membincangkan topik 'communication in longterm relationship'. Correct me if I'm wrong, lagi lama perhubungan kita membuatkan kita melakukan banyak perkara yg take 'things for granted'. Diam sejenak berfikir 'betullah seperti apa yg dinyatakan....hehehehe saya pun ada melakukan seperti itu-take things for granted'

Orang yg veteran ni mendalami maksud cinta, kasih dan sayang bukanlah seperti org muda. Jalan pegang tangan, kiss sini sana, say i love u, miss u so much dan lain lagi. Ianya more to companionship and feel of connected....sharing Is caring, do things together and have something in common towards direction in life. 

My personal conclusion nothing wrong with LOVE and they're no limitation for people enjoy they way of having love no matter they're young single, married and older. Love is beautiful, give us sharing moments and peacefully in life.

The good thing about Healthy LOVE is it ENCOURAGE us to achieved something good/benefit in life together with all people around us. They also benefit with the Love that we created. Not we creating a Love that will make other people around us feel sad, worried and measurable life - that created hatred (negative emotions).   

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